As well as what is the environment person is on the moment. My texts are always related to my business. This shows that this society have literally taken the basic values away. Your mindless tic-tic-tic on a stupid phone to send me a message deserves an immediate reply. So the only thing that upsets me is usually that noone teaches her this is not ok. Understanding these subtleties can help you hone in on creative ways to persuade others to take a desired course of action, like reply to more of your meticulously written emails. If not about items in No.
Thank you for your conclusive words and honesty. I have a small circle of friends and 2 live interstate. I filtered all of my calls by sending then to Voice mail, and replied via sms where I could. But I promise you this, nobody could ever even think about loving you as much as I do. In fact, I've recently changed my number and given it to only a select few people. If you can answer every email that you receive, i say kuddo to you, but I'm not sure how you could do that and still have a life as every email you answer will generate yet more emails for you. I don't understand at all why one would assume a message is ignored just because someone doesn't hit the reply button within 45 seconds.
Your best friends might just be your enemies. I would spend less time on brain storming and more time just jumping in and beginning to blog. This goes for the ones that ignore, not the ones that would respond. I think it's important to maintain politeness. Your neighbor has no right to hold you hostage by expecting instant replies. ~ I forgive you, but I never forget. People are just very selfish and they hide behind various excuses to not admit that they were 1.
Why even talk about this? Facebook was easier to get through to her but only if I sent message to inbox. She showed nothing but laziness and contempt for you. I hate it when people do not reply, because it does not take much time and it is just plain rude to ignore someone. In a business environment emails, phone calls and letters need to be replied in a timely matter mostly within 24-48 hours, even if only a letter to acknowledge their correspondence and will reply in due course. I think the sad part is that we are all guilty of this lapse in communication judgment, so why do we react so harshly when it happens to us? I just wish one day you would appreciate me. I can put away 1 minute of my life to respond to a text.
We have two Mutual friends and I found out they get the same treatment. So send them with a button to the moon Alice!!! I always make the effort of telling people, especially when i meet them. Can you imagine stopping to talk to an old friend in the street and mid conversation they just turn around and walk away??? I feel most people now have things in reverse, they will be responsive and completely engrossed with strangers, many are very casual about giving out their number and wasting hours texting. The silence, in the most unhappy and unstable hands can be extremely humiliating and condescending. Now I know hed very very well and I know she is just educated in the spirit I dont give a damn about anyone except if they have some interest that matchs my expectations. Answering bits and pieces makes it hard to follow the thread.
And, another example: I talk with this guy that I just met. I sent a message that I understand not answering right away but treating me the way she did, was not ok. This article first appeared at Forbes. Fake people eventually show their true colors. What I get upset at is a lack of honesty. Just be specific when you meet such people. Emails can so easily pile up, I can feel as though I'll never get on top of them.
People text, call and reply to people they want to talk to. That person found another phone number to send me 11 psycho messages. Take the high road out of this childish banter and separate yourself from the reactionary ego-charged behavior. Too many people die with great ideas inside them. I personally deserve much better. Responding is a common courtesy and speaks to professionalism. Since he doesn't return my messages I no longer return his.
Give them some time to think that you missed their call instead of them knowing that you ignored it. This may account for why increasing numbers of my harder-edged, shall we say, business messages go unanswered. I think its just another outlet in our society for people to be inconsiderate. When i send text messages and people don't reply, i know thats its normally because they are busy, have no credit to reply, signal in the area they are in may not be too good, so the text may not send till later, but im not too bothered if they don't reply because i can get intouch with them some other way, like on messenger or by phoning them. How we deal with the energy it brings, however, is telling of how we choose to respond. However, this is leaving our society a bit desensitized. If I cannot escape, I make a telephone call when I am 'up to it' It is all very stressful.
That is, of course, if you want to stay friends with the person. We've all got one ex who we basically want to. I'm disabled and live in a suburban social desert. People always say that face to face is the best way. And when i finish work i want a me time ,a desconection. Whether it's a colleague or a friend is disrespectful communication is everything.