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How to Accept Your Boyfriend's Interest in Pornography: 10 Steps

my boyfriend would rather watch porn

Although i am still waiting for any professional help i have been getting better everyday. We really don't have a whole lot of context or details to make assumptions from. We were around each other often and had sex once, sometimes twice a day… Yet he still needed his porn fix. He then said it was an advert but since its been googled searched i know hes lying. November 24, 2014, 1:46 pm Here I go again with my comment, will not comment on fb cause want to be anonymous for readers. He is a great person and I love him dearly but this is killing me! Or maybe hes unsure of himself? Every night we'll watch tv in bed and then he'll just roll over and go to sleep, showing no interest in me at all and now I know it's because he's already taken care of himself that day! He has already had erictile disfunction with other women in the past - luckily enough it hasnt been with me yet. My boyfriend does not want me to take oral contraceptives and usually he is the one who purchases condoms.

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My boyfriend would rather masturbate than have sex with me...

my boyfriend would rather watch porn

Every relationship is different and every person is different as well. He is fully aware this upsets me - as it makes me feel like its something wrong with me. Humans naturally want to get the most out of their efforts. But after a long term relationship where the sex wasnt what it should be and neither was the relationship, i want this to be different, and in every other way it is. Pornography is sometimes just that: a temporary substitute. Define what cheating means to you.

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Ask A Guy: My Boyfriend Watches Porn

my boyfriend would rather watch porn

However, it just keeps getting worse. He may be addicted to porn and he may need help. You also tell me that he watches a lot of porn and masturbates at least once a day. The amount of internet traffic devoted just to porn is staggering. He's adamant he loves me, finds me attractive and would never cheat.

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Why does my boyfriend rather masturbate than have sex?

my boyfriend would rather watch porn

He isn't x or y so don't expect him to be. But i told him that i can blowjob him and i will be more happy instead of knowing him hiding and mastubate with porn. However, he has lost interest in sex with me. He seems loving and wants to be close to me at home, so nothing unusual. An unhealthy or lack of a sex life in our relationship is not a healthy relationship to me. Be prepared that you may not agree on this. If so I guess I failed him.

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How to Accept Your Boyfriend's Interest in Pornography: 10 Steps

my boyfriend would rather watch porn

It could open your eyes to some new things, and shockingly, girls can be turned on by it, too. There are people who have devoted their entire careers to talking about the adverse mental, physical and psychological effects of porn, so I am not going to attempt to do that here as there are others who have done a far better job than I would. For men, usually their porn use is separate from the relationship and used as non-attachment and impersonal fulfillment of pleasure. Ive also told him how alone this makes me feel and that I need more affection but just as with every other talk we have he makes the attempt for a day or 2 then it goes back to the same. I would have to ask him to go down on me. I agree it either he agree to counseling or you need to get out of the relationship. The viewer doesn't care about the individuals in the film and doesn't have any desire to be with them.

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My boyfriend would rather watch porn than have sex with me!

my boyfriend would rather watch porn

We would have sex often, but he preferred me going down on him, and would rather have that than sex-fine, I like pleasing. Is he stressed about finances or anything else? Are you the only woman he's ever been with in a sexual way? Just wanted to note: even for j. Maybe if you explain this can be a bad side affect which could lead to impotency, he'll agree to counseling. You do not think of porn as cheating or you do think of it as cheating. I only know one site that has male model category and even so, they are mostly gay.

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Why porn instead of me?

my boyfriend would rather watch porn

That was a week ago, and we haven't had sex since. My bf of 4 years doesn't seem to be interested intimacy. I would name a few of the negative effects of porn on men here, including but not limited to erectile dysfunction, lower testosterone, depression, lower motivation and the inability to be sexually stimulated without porn. Do we have any hope for a future? Your man is doing something that causes harm to his significant other. We really don't have a whole lot of context or details to make assumptions from.

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My boyfriend would rather masturbate than have sex with me...

my boyfriend would rather watch porn

He wont even come lay with me. You don't want to be with someone you can't trust. Deviating from established sex drives and patterns is often a symptom and not itself the disease. No, it doesn't make you a bad girlfriend. Sex being an expectation has historically been a prolonged boner killer for me. You've learned enough for me to say no.

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My boyfriend would rather watch porn than have sex with me!

my boyfriend would rather watch porn

We have gotten to the point of only having sex once a month, if that! He lets you eat all of the food in his house. From the very beginning, I knew something was off. Walk around naked or wearing provocative clothing but dont make it obvious, just be casual. And where on earth did you get the idea that you have to put up with it? The fact is, science and research have shown how , , and is. He will try to get me off. I would appreciate any advice or suggestions on what I should do.

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