I'm dating a married man, have been for 3 years, we have a beautiful little boy. I would love to end it but just can't bring myself to do it, i keep telling myself that the few hours we spend together will be enough and live in hope that one day we will be together. I am far from stupid PhD , but yes, I am still with my married man and still happy. Not going to happen girls …. So he gave it to me for all he know his call logs are empty as well as his outbox and inbox,. It was April when he left. The wife really has nothing to do with the crap he pulled on you.
My exploits will probably send me to the grave a decade earlier than scheduled. I am married too and have a daughter. I told him I couldn't revolve my life and my decisions around a married man. So I told him the truth because we always had an greement that we would tell each other if there was ever anyone else. You deserve more than that. He is my 2nd boyfriend and he his married.
With that knowledge, I have to go. Why do you feel so low about yourself that you would even agree to have an illicit affair with a married man who has children. And later he told me he has a son and married but separated for 2 years and started to have divorce plan couple months ago. Told me how she and he contemplated abortion for the 5th kid. But just think about the above statement.
I forgive him, myself, and the wife who called me yelling the first night, when a stranger from home town let her know. There will be people in your life that can make you feel special and meet those emotional needs. I one night, stupidly, told him this and my feelings. Failing that, share with a professional or even that coworker who has gently taken an interest in you or expressed concern. He comes to sleepover at least twice a week.
I miss you so much I can't wait too see you. Women should unite and stop hurting each other. His child is his world and I would never expect him to chose him or me. A female reader, , writes 30 May 2010 : Flirting keeps a marriage alive. Please be careful judging people when the story runs deeper than you may see. When a man or woman is deprived of being pleasured by their spouse for long periods of time, they become no longer interested in their spouse intimately.
Good luck as you continue this new journey. He tole he has never felt this way and his sorry. You have no intention of leaving your wife for another woman. I know his wife and his parents. I went from having what was the best relationship I'd ever had because I knew it wouldn't last to marrying him and having my whole life has changed for the better. I never intended to fall in love with a married man, especially one who lived thousands of miles away. He would send me flowers to my job and we just basically hung out together all the time.
Hi jane, I read your letter also. I just want to be around him and know that we will have a bond forever. I'm sure he does care about you, but more likely as a friend, not a lover. Somehow we met and ended talking like we were old friends. I had a hard time understanding why everyone would still go if they were divorcing? Here's his contact: orkstarspell gmail.
He was hurt but took it as a wake up call on our relationship. When two people get married it is suppose to be to death do them part. Cheating is sinful, it is horrible; it is ungodly. Somehow thisman broke down my wall and we fell in love. I love my time alone.
It was the best, most elated I have ever felt but also there was a crushing sadness that I felt often when we had such short time together or I thought of him going home to his wife. If you don't want to be the other woman when don't be, no one forced all of you into relationships anyway. I have been miserable, but I have been extremely happy. You have no clue how much damage you have caused me and my daughter. The relationship with a married man becomes a fantasy as in you go back to being a teenager who has no responsibility no worries just both of you in your little bubble.
She was actually not anything he ever said that she was. I do not believe all women that fall for a married man have lower self esteem or are poorly educated, or horrible women , sometimes your life can lack excitement and when someone makes you feel special unlike anyone else you want to hold on to that. Makes me soul search not to mention he the wife and 5 kids are going away for Thanksgiving. They never talked any more, she never understood him, their sex was terrible or non existent, she spent to much time with the kids not with him you know the drill. I enjoy him when he is. I seem to find married men too.