It is the life force of energy within our very being. The water coming down the mountain is alive and moving--not stagnant and spawning God knows what. The physical reactions of love are a neurological condition where we feel bonded to something or someone else. Now, friends, you know about the awesome refiner's fire of natural love. If we followed our hearts, love would govern our every move, and we'd create beauty wherever we go. Tear down the walls and thrown out the sink. True Love and Ego Love But to get a little closer to the topic at hand, true love is love without conditions.
I love them all so much, very unconditionally, l have always been the one to apologize just to keep the peace. The woman looks surprised but not afraid. Our actions, thoughts, and beliefs ultimately root themselves in two components of our being: the ego and the true self. How you treat others compared to your partner is something to think about when you are considering whether you are feeling true love or just in a relationship with someone who you take out your frustrations on. You don't even need a reason to feel it.
Here at HealThruWords® we believe that for too long words have been used to promote more negativity than positivity. The only time it has no power is when I play my guitar, but after I finish, it comes back. We will never find love or happiness by chasing after anyone. My primary interest is in leading a very examined and decent and Loving life; my interests that are related to this and that feed into this include and are not limited to -- psychology, philosophy, poetry, critical thinking, photography, soccer, tennis, chess, bridge. Parents and society subconsciously mould us into something we are not.
Love: the purifying fire And ego is reasonable to fear love, because the truth is, if we were to let love run its natural course, it would eliminate egoism from our lives and mentality altogether. It makes us feel safe and protected. When something seemingly lost to us returns - or maybe finds us for the first time -- in a single moment of blinding clarity, we may find ourselves with the essence of an authentic, egoless love, and then all the talk of archetypes and motifs, complexes, core conflicts and neurotic interdependencies become somehow inadequate. In my case the end of the honeymoon was very sudden, I took it for a lesson. Metiza is a positive online community focused on young women inspiring and encouraging one another to be their best selves. Hatred is extremely destructive and wreaks havoc on our mental, emotional, and physical well being. Know the difference between true love and ego love so you can make better decisions with whom you choose to surround yourself.
It will bring about a fusion of souls, and give us an awareness and experience of our unity, our togetherness, our connectedness. I agree with most of what you write. You're simply not used to it. It takes stepping outside of the ego and moving into a state of compassion where you value other people and connections in a different way. The truth is true love is an extension of our own true nature. Anything that seems this good is bound to be a wolf in sheep's clothing. Our purpose is to reestablish natural balance by lowering the negative self-talk of every single individual and its greater community or group.
A soulful relationship is a vocation because it becomes an actual centerpiece in our lives not something peripheral, not an accessory , a place where we make the fruits of our spiritual practice tangible and visible. However, in this world of duality, it can be easy to get lost in trying to constantly improve yourself or become something else. The force of ego But to ego, love is dangerous. Everyday I struggle with my wanting to have, to posess the other, to fulfil my needs, etc. As in I love seeing him happy, cause that is my happiness. Further, consider the more beautiful events of the past.
And that is the truth - you are love. The more I fight it, the more it constricts me. Even pleasure threatens ego, particularly great pleasure. But, not against our will. Ego-based relationships create chaos and pain and they only give temporary satisfaction but soul relationships last a lifetime. In each instance of pain or disappointment, exactly what caused the problem? In such soul-love or soul-friendship there is no trace of fear of loss, no need to control, no further holding on. As soon as it starts to get discovered in one place and seen for what it is—as soon as the flow of effortless gratification in a relationship dries up in one place—it jumps ship to go off to another place and another new someone and play its game of hide and take again with someone new.
We've received thanks from many of you. Whereas, in the soul-based relationships, you both grow but not through pain but instead through awareness and being present. It is important to always stay true to yourself, and love your self and your own company. Soulmate Love, on the other hand, takes ego out of play. I did get a skin cancer diagnosis. Share in the comments below how this topic has impacted you. And when you get that, then you can be happy or feel some variety of love.
So embrace it fully and learn from your current lessons. Let it blossom later on, once all attachments and desires are gone. It's all love, and it all needs to be embraced. Someone pretending to be pregnant or suicidal in order to keep someone are just two examples of games that are not a part of true love. I would come out with great ideas and share, sometimes write them down. Do we love ourselves unconditionally? Visualize a string from your heart to his, and mentally take a pair of scissors, and with determination cut that string of attachment.