I dont really care if I have any or not. A couple of my dates who were in their 50s were hotter than most of my dates who were in their 20s. We dated a while and once he made me feel safe and we got intimate he broke my heart and became incredibly cruel. As u said if I was a man nobody would even care… I wonder if stereotypes are what is bothering me right now… I actually have the opposite situation: my boyfriend is 12 years older than me. We have been both giving suttle hints. How did it work out for you???? Get yourself out and find that young man who you can fall in love with. I can tie my shoes! We met in church when he was 16 and I was 52.
My sons were accepting and thought it was hilarious. I always wanted children so bad, but my wife was unable to bear children. All men I described above can get 20-something. I know couples that have made things work. Other than that, age is meaningless precisely because people create this myth that closer age means longer lasting relationships, when all the data points to this being completely baseless. He is so protective of me and always makes sure that I am fine and we looked after. Women have a biological window to have kids that ends fairly early, but men, in my opinion, tend to be better fathers later in life.
Anonymous My story is a bit different. They've been thought of 18 years, and cher all dated a. Is proof positive that you are at least as immature as any twenty-anything year old out there, if not less so. She also had plenty of issues that another 5-10 years of life would have ironed out, I hope. The only thing I would consider before totally falling is issues like kids, things like that. If anyone is in my position I suggest you wait til they get older. Even though I'm 19 and he is 28, our personalities mesh perfectly, and although others including close family and friends tend to frown down upon the rather large age gap, I am not ashamed in the least.
One of my boys is 26, and he's seeing a 19 year old. I wm a young looking 45yr old woman from hawaii who had been living in Brazil for some years now. I let him call the shots in the relationship because I want him to feel entitled, not like he's my boytoy, or someone he has to listen to and obey just because I'm older and …well I was crying about Kurt Cobain dying when the year he was born. All I want to do is just be with him and love him and be in a long, lasting, lifetime relationship with him. But I wondered whether they considered certain important questions. Please help Nomvula I asked my daughter now recently how they would feel if I was to date someone that young and the both said whatever makes me happy makes them happy too. The math helps me to manage my initial feelings of ickiness! According to 15 per cent.
Now im at a crossroad because my guy doesnt want to keep it but i feel this baby deserves a life no matter the circumstances, we are now not a couple so hes really pushing abortion but im not with it i know it will be a struggle but my gut is telling me to go for it and everything will be ok Anonymous Hi, am 42 years old, and he is 34. Centering is also very important, but so … und stamps that are badly centered are still worth something. I like to dance, love new music, technology etc. Hi Javier, I think that you are exactly right that often women this age may feel that friends, family or society in general will not accept you as a couple. But the point and topic was about rating attractiveness.
What interests could we possibly share? In short, you can't be very passive. Some men in their forties have dated or are dating women in their twenties. My dad is 81 and my mom is 66 and people don't blink an eye. Men are attracted to women who are at their most fertile. Was having an interesting convo with my friends the other day and they didn't seem to have a problem with it.
Subjectively, the woman in her 40s is a little closer to my personal tastes. All that proves what, exactly? He is funny and smart, kind and caring. They would drop everything for an opportunity to be with one of those guys. Both my fiance and I are divorced so we understand a lot much about each other and what we've been through. Honestly … what does a 50 year old man have in common with a 25 year old? He took off his shirt and I was like…. We get along so well! I have read through all the post here and I can relate. I suppose if you are reading this article you might be looking for justification for your preferences, and so, yes, maybe it is all about looks.
With me its the opposite. We have considered children, but of course we would rather wait while she develops her career. We started dating and became a couple. If I do want any and he wants any, sure. We dated for almost a year. I spent a fair amount of time researching this subject, I was amazed at how many unhappy marriages there are and at how long many people stayed in those marriages. Unless she was a very rare 19 year old, the power differences and practical issues would make it difficult for me to cultivate the sort of relationship I'm looking for.
It gets real weird for a 30+ year old dude when you bring your 16 year old bestie from school over to hang out. Make that women to date a woman, who is that are women don't want to have kids. Actually most crime and murder is committed by the poor mostly amongst each other and the fastest way to help the needy is by not being one of them. Women my age are kind of boring to me. He's a few months younger than my baby brother! Also glad i was driving the odds of 30-year-old man. It all comes down to what one brings to the table.